My boyfriend is on a dating site
Often men like you enough to move things forward, but they just aren’t all in yet.They keep these secrets because they fear your emotional reaction.If you know for a fact that he is online and active, and you decide you must confront him or you will die, don’t go at it in an accusing manner please.A simple statement like “I noticed you have your online dating profile still up and perhaps I don’t understand the terms of our relationship correctly, could you help me out with this? Not with the ears that want to believe, but with that gut!This may also be a sign to you that you are a lot more invested into him than he is into you.After all, you wouldn’t dream of still being on a dating site would you? Is he really your boyfriend or has your imagination carried you away in this relationship?It recently transpired that my boyfriend of 15 months has been looking at girls on a dating website that he used to use before he met me.I found this out after he started to write something in a search engine on his laptop when I was sitting next to him, which brought up his history in the search bar and I asked “do you still look at …(dating website)”.
No need to be reactive especially when he’s not really active on there.I don’t care what he tells you or what excuse he gives.Unless he is a complete idiot, he is aware this would not make you happy.He reassured me that he was not going on there to look for girls, but just to look at their pictures.I told him that I found this a bit weird that he is going on a dating website to look at other girls, when supposedly he is in a relationship with me.