Email online dating match

Why do I believe a woman can and should send the first email while still allowing a man to be the man and pursue her?

Here are seven facts that support why women should ditch the passive behavior online. The men I coach and speak with are burnt out from online dating.

I really got into the quizzes that members could take. Ok Cupid prides themselves on the ability to match people based on responses to their surveys.

They have a decent algorithm as I found myself conversing with smart, funny and attractive women regularly. There wasn’t much competition — that is, not many other guys were using it when I was.

They do not want a long process and they get disillusioned with the time it takes to get a response from a woman.

Men often have to write 50 emails to get perhaps two responses.

I’m not the typical “guy” who posts shirtless pictures of himself on dating sites or sends unsolicited pictures of his genitals to random women.

The interactions were unique because of the anonymity given by using My Space.

As history has it, when people defected from My Space to Facebook, that online community became a dust town.

Eventually as more and more men (late majority) joined the site, I observed two problems.

First, was the women became less trusting, less open and much more selective in who they even talk to.

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